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Birthdays are particular. These are times to honour, consider, and experience the kindness and friendliness of people all around us. On my birthday, I looked forward to and greetings from friends and relatives. I am not pretty, hence someone said me I would not get many wishes. This said prompted me to mistrust and question myself. Is it true that our looks defines our value and the affection we acquire?
First of all, one must grasp what actual beauty is. Beauty is personal and differs much amongst people, societies, and civilizations. What one person finds lovely could not be so to another. But led by media and social platforms that present a limited definition of beauty, physical appearance is sometimes overemphasised in modern culture. For people who deviate from these standards, this might cause self-doubt and inadequacy.
The truth is that beauty transcends surface level appearance. Although first glance might be drawn to someone’s looks, the inner attributes are what really define a person. More than any physical quality are kindness, empathy, generosity, and the capacity to make others feel valuable and cherished. These attributes leave a lasting impression and help you build real relationships with individuals.
Getting birthday wishes shouldn’t depend on physical appearance. Not for your appearance, true friends and loved ones value and congratulate you for who you are personally. It speaks more about their superficiality than it does about your value if someone decides not to wish you a happy birthday depending on your appearance.
Furthermore crucial is realising that your value or degree of affection cannot be determined by the quantity of birthday greetings you get. Though some people might not be vocal or demonstrative about their emotions, this does not mean they don’t care. Others can be forgetful or preoccupied—human nature. The real test of your value is the nature of your interactions and the good influence you bring about for others’ life.
When I think back on my own experiences, I see that meaningful connections result from shared events, encouragement of one another, and understanding. Most importantly, it’s the people that support you through trying circumstances, celebrate your achievements, and embrace you for your actual self. Physical appearance has no bearing on the trust, respect, or pure love upon which these partnerships are based.
Furthermore very important for our view of ourselves and others are self-love and self-acceptance. Accepting your special abilities and feeling confident in who you are will draw real appreciation and respect from others. Emphasising personal development, loving your inner attractiveness, and building a good self-image is vital.
On this birthday, I chose to celebrate myself rather than stressing the quantity of wishes or the surface opinions of others. I want to value my abilities, accept my worth, and welcome my path. Real beauty affects the hearts of people around us from within.
Know that you are more than adequate, everyone who has ever felt unworthy or rejected due of appearance. Just as you are deserving of love, respect, and happiness. Surround yourself with individuals that celebrate your individuality, value your inner beauty, and inspire you. Release the shallow criteria imposed by society and welcome the beauty found inside.
Ultimately, you are not ugly, thus you will not be deprived of birthday greetings. Real beauty goes beyond appearances; the affection and gratitude from close friends and loved ones come from your individual character. Celebrate yourself, welcome your individuality, and allow your inner beauty really radiate. Happy birthday to you, a magnificent soul deserving of all the love and delight on Earth.