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Today is my birthday, yet I haven’t received any birthday greetings. I’m feeling quite upset about it

Today signifies yet another year added to my path of life—a day I typically eagerly await. My birthday is when I should expect kind greetings, kind comments, and expressions of affection from loved ones, family, and friends. But as the day goes on, I find myself in an unanticipated position: I haven’t yet gotten any birthday greetings, hence I’m really unhappy.


The morning started like every other birthday, hopeful and enthusiastic. Excitement greeted me when I woke up and reached for my phone to search for the stream of alerts usually accompanying this unique day. To my astonishment and dismay, though, there were no messages ready to meet me. Not calls, no texts, not social media posts wishing me a happy birthday. The surroundings seemed to have forgotten about this significant turning point.

Birthdays are quite dear to us. They are yearly reminders of the love, relationships, and memories we have with others. Birthdays are, for me, a celebration of life, development, and the relationships that mould who I am rather than only a date on the calendar. Not receiving birthday greetings today seems like an emptiness, a sharp reminder of the expectations I had for this day.

Social media has changed our means of celebration of birthdays and communication in the digital era. Friends, acquaintances, and even distant relatives now gather on this stage to send their virtual hugs and well wishes. On my birthday, the quiet bereft of the customary outpouring of love sets off emotions of loneliness and sadness. Though people lead hectic lives, the absence of welcomes nevertheless hurts.

I try to divert myself from the day with usually joyful activities as it goes on. Hoping the fresh air will clear my head, I meander slowly across a neighbouring park. I treat myself to a preferred dinner and enjoy every morsel as a little luxury. Still, among these attempts to get my spirits high, the lack of birthday greetings haunts me and clouds what ought to have been a joyful day.

When I’m by myself, I start to consider the meaning behind birthday messages. Their actual representation is what? Are they only acts of social obligation or sincere displays of love and concern? It’s simple to link our feeling of value to outside validation, to want comfort and confirmation from others as a gauge of our worth. Birthdays, too, provide a chance for self-discovery and introspection.

Maybe this quiet birthday reminds us to be comforted in resilience and self-appreciation. This is an opportunity to celebrate the path of development and personal achievements as well as to develop thanksfulness for the blessings outside of online communications. Although birthday messages have emotional significance, real happiness comes from within—from accepting my who I am, appreciating my successes, and discovering delight in the small pleasures of life.

A few late calls and messages from friends and relatives creep in as the day ends. Their remarks are real, full of apologies for the oversight and sincere wishes for wealth and happiness. Though late, these actions offer a ray of hope to otherwise depressing days. They serve as a reminder that celebration and connection have an enduring spirit independent of time or situation.

When I think back on this birthday celebration, I see that although the day did not go as planned, it was a teaching in resilience and thanksfulness. It has helped me to enjoy the little events, value the relationships that improve my life, and recognise the real ties that cut across online environments. Birthdays define our depth of the ties we create and the love we share, not the number of wishes we get.

Finally, today is my birthday. Although I have not yet received any birthday greetings, I am glad for the chance to consider, develop, and value the gifts in my life. Birthdays serve as a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the continuing force of love—not only a celebratory day. And for that, despite first disappointment, I am rather grateful.

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